From the Archives: Drink and a Man

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Tricycle contributing editor Joan Duncan Oliver wrestles with Mara in a tale of two addictions from the special section on desire in the summer 2004 issue. Look for more of Joan’s work in the upcoming fall 2005 issue - she edits a special section on happiness, including pieces by Joseph Goldstein, Clark Strand, an interview with B. Allan Wallace, and much more. Joan is the author of Happiness: How to Find It and Keep It.

ONLY TWO THINGS HAVE I EVER CRAVED as much as life itself: drink and a man. To save my life, I had to give up the drink. To give up the drink, I had to give up the man.

My desire for both was total, visceral: passion seeking its own DNA. The bond was physical, emotional, spiritual, chemical - drink, man, and I locked in a menage � trois.

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